Dignity

This is about the guy I’ve been seing for few months. His name is Gregory Mark Davies, an Australian, lives in Melbourne. He’s been cheating on me twice. The first one was after we spend few nights together and we were supposed to have dinner on the Oct 20, 2017 at his bestfriend’s house dinner time at 6pm but Just about 15mins to 6pm, he was saying his bestfriend Ron’s only prepare the room for one person. So I told him to go there and I will go home to my place for few days. Greg did offer me to stay in his apartment instead and he’ll be back after one hour. Well knowing Australian meets British, there’s no way he’ll be back for one hour. I decided to go home. So end up they went out for drinks and dance that night. And slept with a girl he claimed it was his long time ex (what a slut). I’ve found out about that in a harsh way, found hairs in bathroom and bedrooms, a pair of earings, and missing condoms. I had confronted him right away. He creates a story that after few drinks and dance and he was so drunk and cought into a situation. He said with tears, claiming it meant nothing. Hugging me tight asked me to stay as I packed to go home. I care so much about this guy and it hurts me so bad, as I was still learning to trust him that time and he was claiming he’s not in the right mental states (deppression and axiety), he grab my hand talked to me it will never happened again and it meant nothing to him. He even mention they didn’t do it all the way ( what a jerk! Is there such thing as didn’t do it all the way? ). So this girl remained to stay anonymous until today. Simply because I didn’t want to know and we want to move forward for our relationship.

He went back to Melbourne, Australia on the the 25th OCT, 2017 through Singapore, staying there for 2 days at his bestfriend house. Since then we never stopped calling audio and video, chatting nonstop for hours and hours every single day without failed, I knew for long time he has a plan to go to Phillipines for spending Christmas with his 2 sisters and a bro in law & 2 beautiful nieces. On the 2nd date he asked me to come to Phillipines and spend few days there. But that was before the 1st cheating incident. He has a Ticket to fly on the 6th of Dec, 2017. At first his ticket was flying through Denpasar Bali, and we did plan to meet up on the way and when he returned from Philippines. But then on the 27th Nov, 2017 the Ngurah Rai Airport Denpasar Bali was closed for 2 days, all flights were cancelled and so he received the warning emails to re route his booking. He was still thinking on flying through Singapore so I could fly to see him for few days. But it didn’t happened due to high fares. He ended up flying through Sydney. And when I asked him about the flights details he didn’t give it to me, although he has promised on the whatsapp chat he will send me Sydney-Manila, but never did. I always have my bf’s flight details to know which flight he will take, just in case. When he reached Manila he updated me arrived safe and sound. I was at the hospital waiting for my sick aunt to have a big surgery. I always manage to give him enough affections and attention as I mentioned above he was not in a good mental states, always encouraged him to stay positif because he was worry about his back, disc problem and after being convince to see chiropractor and do some exercises, after few weeks he started to look happier and getting better. That’s when his cheating hobbies start to get itch again. And appearently he’s been secretly chatting with Pinoy Slut name Claudette T. Abante, from Manila-Philippines . Whenever I tried to call him, he rejected immediately all my calls and lied about the limited wifi connection. I didn’t buy it but at the same time I was more worried about my aunt that night. He even texted me and say sorry cannot talk on phone, needs to navigate the walk. So I believe him at that moment. He started to text me short message one day one time (and this is so not him, he usually super duper chatty 24/7) and when I asked him quetions he didn’t answer any. And claimed he’s on holiday, with limited wifi whenever he has a chance to text me.in fact, I saw him online so many times every day during his trip. How stupid he thinked that an Indonesian woman, who holds USA university degrees can be fooled so easily? I’ve been living abroad for more than 20 years, holding a Vice President position in one large company. Not to mentioned managing hundreds of people, interviewed and hiring best people. I’ve seen enough people lied about their character and personality.
When he was in Boracay, he claimed no wifi in his hotel, and for one more time I don’t buy this, I was there in 2007 and the wifi was fine. Yes, you get disconnected from time to time but it’s fine for you to update your love ones and even calling them or receiving calls (trust me). Do you think, 10 years after, technology is getting even worst? Hahaha yeah right (who are you trying to fool?).

Well, the cheater will always get caught especially when his partner cares and loves him genuinely. As a girlfriend I was never the nag type ever to any of my ex boyfriends. But the situation was dragged me to nag him to give me some news once a day and asking him to speak on the audio calls which he keeps rejecting (most of the time he ignores the messages). The funniest part the same cheater forgot what he told his gf and feeling so bad wanted to show off to other girls on Facebook and Instagram (Greg and I have this discussion about how he feels when he gets lots of likes on his photos and it makes him so proud). So the pictures have to be posted on their social media, and didn’t remember he’s been lying to me about the wifi. It has to be updated, it’s instagramable! and facebookable! vacation pictures ( or maybe f*ck-action by means).

Ladies, or gents, do remember this, if your heart genuinely loves someone, you will sense something went so wrong, do find out the signs because you deserve to know the ugly truth. And unfortunately for them, this how I found out the hornymoon couple. That night, I confronted both of them via a switch off phone whatsapp (just so you know he never switch off his phone when he was with me not even for one minute). Always next to him even when he sleeps. And of course the slut acting as a victim when I bombared her Instagram. She even dare to call me cheap after I call her a whore, she forgets that her price tag’s barcodes it’s written FREE OF CHARGE. Threatened me she will put me in jailed by defamation, she forgets what she’s been writing to me. Claiming as HR officer, shamlessly defending herself as a victim. While she’s f*cking my boyfriend. As a woman (not a slut, I mean) she should known better and noticed when a guy she’s been f*cking is rejecting phone calls from his gf for so many time, but seems she obviously not acting like one, and believe me, a slut like this simply doesn’t care as long as she has free meals. She probably didn’t even know or maybe not even care when I confronted my bf (my ex bf now) he’s using the term to call her as “my friend” (a.k.a my f*cking friend).

I’m writing this story, hoping to go around the world to warn all the men and women who I believe ever been in my situation (for at least once), please be aware there are at least two cheaters who shamelessly hurting you, one is your shameless significant partner and the other one is the one who accomodate the needs. But trust the KARMA, and No worries because there will be the time they will have to pay for the price so high and in a very harsh way just exactly how you found out, such as STD’s that has no cure for the rest of their life or maybe worst than that.

P.S.: Gregory is not only cheating on me but to his exes too, and the funniest part about all of this, Greg and I didn’t have any problems or arguments before he fly to Phillipines. And our sex life is absolutely very well maintained for a long distance couple (we’ve been long distance 35 days) if you know what I mean, nowadays with any apps on your phone or pad or tab, you can video s*x.

Well, what can I say? (Just a hobby that’s so hard to kill and he found it so hard to stay faithful to one woman). This type of people will never deserve an honest relationship. So be aware and run right away when you caught him or her at the 1st time. Because if you do give them a 2nd chance, it will last only less than 35days or more.

Psssttt, some people just don’t deserve a 2nd chance.

Lesson learnt!

Dignity

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